To all the women who have suffered...

Well, this post is dedicated to women who had gotten through rough relationship with guys.

Girls, there is something special in every woman's heart. It is love and more loves.

If you are reading this, think of this question : "Has my boyfriend ever talked to me like he's the king and gave me *peep* words?

If no, well good for you.

If yes, but only once, please be careful of the fore-comings. Guys who have ever said mean words will think like "It's not a problem, she didn't fight back," resulting in more harsh calls and the longer you think "He's gonna change." or "It's just this once, maybe he has problems in his family..." "It's okay, I can handle it" "All boys said things like that"

Well I can't say anything but 100% disagree.

Believe me :

Whenever a guy said bad things, he would say it again and again and again ....

DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE DEGRADED! NO! 

Reject his phones, SMS, Chats and just let him go.

If not, you will be like his "trash" for bad words. Things that he cannot and would not say to other girls, he said them to you as if you will take it all but you will never fought back. You would be like his impingement!

I got through this situation and I regret that I started to say "It's okay..." "It's fine... He'll change". However, boys will never will. I was showered by bad words, even when we are not together anymore. Sometimes I miss him but I only miss him, not his bad words.

There are other condition though that he will change and stop that bad attitude. However, in a million cases of teenage lovebirds, only one man would stop at the first time because he didn't know and when he know you hated that harsh words, he'll stop. One in a million, girls! Worse, if you save the wrong men, you will end up being beaten up even when you've married him.

ONE THING you should remember~

When he said *peep* you or others, it means that HE DISRESPECT YOU! From that moment on, he will continue to disrespect you. He demand you to always be by his side although you have your own life. Little by little, small problems would end up with bastard, idiot, *peep* you and others...

WILL YOU KEEP ON SAYING IT'S OKAY WHEN IT's DEFINITELY NOT?!
Stand for one thing : YOUR PRIDE.

I know,

It's hard to break up with someone you cared about and has accompanied you through sadness and happiness, pain or wealth for a long long time. But would you sacrifice your  life? YOUR WHOLE LIFE to keep up with a guy who doesn't even respect your presence?? I don't think so.

So, take all your guts and fight back!

It's hard, but never impossible. You might take one week, or one month or even a year to forget him but I say to you : It's worth the effort!

There are cases where girls are afraid to break up with her boyfriend because they scared of being laughed, gossiped, talked behind their backs etc.etc... Some girls are afraid because they think they will harvest enemies.

I say to you : GIRLS! YOU are AMAZING! There are tons of men in the world better than a dumb who treated you badly.

Just believe that somewhere out there, a prince is waiting for a girl of his dreams.

I hope this post is useful and never regret your decision. I'm not encouraging couples to break up. But I appreciate those brave girls who look back to their relationship and fight for their own good. 

WE ARE GIRLS, NOT DOLLS!

Just let him go and find himself a girl he will respect to the bottom of his heart.
and YOU will find another man who is worth the wait. Until then, you can study, you can work, you can hang out with the boys and girls, flirts, travel around the city or even the world, enjoy your beautiful life without being pestered by a jealous guy. :)
LIVE YOU LIFE HAPPILY. GIRLS DESERVE IT!

Cheers,

writer