Teen Creed

Teen Creed

Don't let you parents down,

they brought you up

Be humble enough to obey,

you might give orders someday

Choose companions with care;

you become what they are

Guard your thoughts;

what you think, you are

Choose only a date

who would make a good mate

Be master of your habits

or they will master you

Don't be a show-off when you drive;

drive with safety and arrive

Don't let the crowd pressure you;

stand for something or you'll fall for anything

Do not be conformed

to this world

Romans 12:2

Sudden Inconvenient Truths

There are so many shocking news going around us, taking place in every inch of the world... Indonesia does too...

Recently, a girl named Amanda was killed. The sad thing is she was murdered the day before her birthday... That very night, a couple was killed in their car in Medan. The murder killed both parents and left a young boy under five without his loved ones.

There are too many truths that people must face. From the happy ones which I reckon that people won't have trouble to go through until the sorrowful ones - death, is one of them. Sickness, bankruptcy, betrayal, marriage bumps and others.

Every people must face their challenge and try to live with it, enjoy it and do something with it.

I have an amazing uncle. We are really close to each other. Sometimes, after school, I helped him with his aglaonemas, anthuriums and kamboja flowers. My uncle was in wheelchair for 11 years because of an accident which cause his body from below the neck paralyzed. Last October, he died.

If you are a grammatical person you should ask : "why do you use "I HAVE an amazing uncle?" you should have used had..."

Yes... I have... Until now, I have an amazing uncle. He's not at my house or at the garden. He IS STILL in my heart. He is still living, not in this perishable world, but in an eternal place called the Heaven.

To tell you the truth, until now, I can still cry and pour all my tears whenever I think of him. In those 11 years, he can still work at home. He breeds louhan fish, koi fish and thousands of aglaonemas :D GO UNCLE! He inspired me and other people not to look at disability but to look at your abilities and what you can do.

There is nothing a man with no eyes couldn't see - he sees with his heart. There is nothing a deaf cannot hear - he hears with his heart. A heart could do everything and everyone can do anything with their hearts.

Losing someone you truly love is not easy. Facing the fact that a friend of yours who you really care of being sick in a hospital with a deadly disease is never easy.

I just realized that a friend of mine suffered from a heart complication. He got minor heart attack and had been hospitalized. It is shocking okay... Seeing someone so energetic, so friendly, so happy like him had to come through something like this.

I am not his best friend, although we used to go to the same school in elementary, but I like to have the opportunity to get friendly with him. Although it's hard because he already have his own friends. I really wish you a good health :D seriously, a bunch of Get Well Soon prayers and a wish for you to continue to amazed others.

If you see this (almost0.00001%) please keep your diets and don't eat junk food. Drink more water and stay away from those soft drinks. KEEP STRONG OKAY?!?!?! *shouting from my bedroom to his*

Friends and others,

It just not that he/she is gone forever or not. There are things and people we should let go, sooner or later. So, in this opportunity, I would like to invite you all, young or old to see the world as a GIFT to be shared with passion and love. My uncle shared his passion of aglaonemas. My friend contributes his passion of sports, photography and he's active in many organisations.

What are we waiting for? A little thing could change a person's world forever.

It all starts with a smile, goes on with a gift and ends with many memories.

One more thing.

People can say that :

   LIFE is a Curse

   LIFE is chosen by destiny (we can't do anything about that)

   or

   LIFE as an ART! Those bumps, those flat lines, those curved ones make a perfect picture of LIFE itself!

Choose your own way to live your life. I don't know about you, but I'm going to make my life as a MASTERPIECE for the world...

Choose wisely ;)

Cheers,

writer

To all the women who have suffered...

Well, this post is dedicated to women who had gotten through rough relationship with guys.

Girls, there is something special in every woman's heart. It is love and more loves.

If you are reading this, think of this question : "Has my boyfriend ever talked to me like he's the king and gave me *peep* words?

If no, well good for you.

If yes, but only once, please be careful of the fore-comings. Guys who have ever said mean words will think like "It's not a problem, she didn't fight back," resulting in more harsh calls and the longer you think "He's gonna change." or "It's just this once, maybe he has problems in his family..." "It's okay, I can handle it" "All boys said things like that"

Well I can't say anything but 100% disagree.

Believe me :

Whenever a guy said bad things, he would say it again and again and again ....

DO NOT LET YOURSELF BE DEGRADED! NO! 

Reject his phones, SMS, Chats and just let him go.

If not, you will be like his "trash" for bad words. Things that he cannot and would not say to other girls, he said them to you as if you will take it all but you will never fought back. You would be like his impingement!

I got through this situation and I regret that I started to say "It's okay..." "It's fine... He'll change". However, boys will never will. I was showered by bad words, even when we are not together anymore. Sometimes I miss him but I only miss him, not his bad words.

There are other condition though that he will change and stop that bad attitude. However, in a million cases of teenage lovebirds, only one man would stop at the first time because he didn't know and when he know you hated that harsh words, he'll stop. One in a million, girls! Worse, if you save the wrong men, you will end up being beaten up even when you've married him.

ONE THING you should remember~

When he said *peep* you or others, it means that HE DISRESPECT YOU! From that moment on, he will continue to disrespect you. He demand you to always be by his side although you have your own life. Little by little, small problems would end up with bastard, idiot, *peep* you and others...

WILL YOU KEEP ON SAYING IT'S OKAY WHEN IT's DEFINITELY NOT?!
Stand for one thing : YOUR PRIDE.

I know,

It's hard to break up with someone you cared about and has accompanied you through sadness and happiness, pain or wealth for a long long time. But would you sacrifice your  life? YOUR WHOLE LIFE to keep up with a guy who doesn't even respect your presence?? I don't think so.

So, take all your guts and fight back!

It's hard, but never impossible. You might take one week, or one month or even a year to forget him but I say to you : It's worth the effort!

There are cases where girls are afraid to break up with her boyfriend because they scared of being laughed, gossiped, talked behind their backs etc.etc... Some girls are afraid because they think they will harvest enemies.

I say to you : GIRLS! YOU are AMAZING! There are tons of men in the world better than a dumb who treated you badly.

Just believe that somewhere out there, a prince is waiting for a girl of his dreams.

I hope this post is useful and never regret your decision. I'm not encouraging couples to break up. But I appreciate those brave girls who look back to their relationship and fight for their own good. 

WE ARE GIRLS, NOT DOLLS!

Just let him go and find himself a girl he will respect to the bottom of his heart.
and YOU will find another man who is worth the wait. Until then, you can study, you can work, you can hang out with the boys and girls, flirts, travel around the city or even the world, enjoy your beautiful life without being pestered by a jealous guy. :)
LIVE YOU LIFE HAPPILY. GIRLS DESERVE IT!

Cheers,

writer

WE NEED REFRESHMENT! BAN FINAL TESTS!

This is the result of massive boredom of coming back from school at ten when usually school ends at 3.30 pm.
Test papers, questions and filling the circles will BLAST ME OFF~!
Junior high should be F.U.N!
Why oh why school tests come so soon...

People,
I can't even stop myself from writing short posts. Blogging Fever?

I have some plans for the next few posts.
When the tests are over...

1.  I will put my reviews about Conan and the gang. <3
2. Then, my fav. books.
3. Maybe some photos (unlikely) of some occasions.
4. Movie reviews (HOLIDAY)
5. My future

Let's pray for those to happen quite soon :p

Supports and feedbacks are needed. Please put some comments, tips or tricks in personalizing blogspot.com :D

THANKS A LOT!

Hahaha.

I feel so much better :) after writing these. :D

Okay, I'm going to bed soon. Bye bye. You should get one too~

See you later~!

Cheers,

writer

The purpose is...

Friends, 

I haven't told you why I suddenly make this blog in the midst of tests tests and more.

First is because I decided to expand my writing skill - hopefully this method works :D and because of my mom's request to WRITE, WRITE, WRITE and WRITE MORE!

Second reason is because I'm bored. I'm not much of a bookworm although I played Lex's Bookworm Adventures (^_^)V. My brain is stuffed with studies I can barely think about anything related to CIVICS.

Third, I want to have something as an output of what I think, I feel and I do. I can get stressed out easily, so yeah, I wish this blog can help me :D

Fourth,

To post something useful. Until now, that something is still unknown, however, I hope that shortly this blog can come together with knowledge.

Oh wait wait

One more.

Fifth... To enhance my English skill. I need to improve my English more and more and more because

Studying is never too late for everybody, you and me:)

Okay, that's all for now. Wait for the others, ok?

Cheers,

writer

Hello everybody out there!

Yay! My first blog !

Not really my first though, I'd made another one about my eternal interest : CONAN.

However, like a fish at the desert, that blog didn't survive for a month --".

Well, hello all visitors and the visitors yet to come, a brief introduction from me by me to you:

I'm Zoya - Zoya Marie Adyasa.

The name's taken from Danielle Steel's book entitled "Zoya". I'll tell you more about that amazing book :D later :p

I'm 14 and when I'm typing this, I was in the middle of my school final test and tomorrow, we have CIVICS! :(
I live in INDONESIA's CAPITAL, JAKARTA :D A rushing city with rushing people :)

Okay.. I LOVE CONAN since grade four still until now and hopefully forever ;)

The suspense, the adventures and Conan himself attracts my ions like a steel, a permanent magnet.

Ehm, I love SHERLOCK HOLMES too especially "The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes" by the mighty Sir Arthur Conan Doyle~! See, Conan again <3

My other interests is basketball and music.

I loveeeeee the sound of the piano being played broadly and romantic :3 VERY MUCH!

Mmm. What else?

I'm in Santa Laurensia JHS grade 9

Oh! I REALLY LOVES SCIENCE! Especially BIOLOGY! Not to mention that I want to be a doctor like my dad as well as a sweet mom like my mother :*

Well. I think the introduction's enough.

If you want to know more, stay tune in this blog and hopefully, I can continue to post and post and post and post... :D

Cheers!

writer